Do you find yourself feeling the need to chase men and relationships alike? It doesn’t have to be that way! In fact, it should be the opposite. Yes – love and relationships can pursue you. You just need to embrace your magnetism and allow that to happen. 

You see, when you own what makes you lovable and unique, you become absolutely magnetic and irresistible to those that are right for you. 

People are inspired by those who own themselves completely, not by those acting as puppets. Chasing people doesn’t work, and you can get away from the shame of it and mobilize change. Learn more about how to do this below. 

Understanding Your Energy 

Let’s talk about your energy. It can lean more feminine or masculine. This has nothing to do with your gender and everything to do with energy. 

It’s imperative to decipher your energy in becoming magnetic. The feminine energy prioritizes love and wants to experience being loved. If this is your energy and you don’t feel that you can naturally receive love without having to do anything, you will feel that it’s scarce and you will overcompensate.

That brings us to the two different mindsets you can embody depending on your level of magnetism. If you’re not magnetized, you may feel that love is scarce, which means you’ll open your heart to anyone that becomes available to you. 

On the other hand, if you feel magnetized and in love with your life, you’ll operate with an abundant mindset. You’ll see love everywhere!

Every subject is two subjects: scarcity or abundance. You will either feel loved from everywhere or you’re constantly in search of it. 

Masculine energy has a different priority. Rather than seeking love, those that embody this energy is focused on their mission.  This energy is mission oriented first and is focused on their goals and ambition. This energy is very devoted to their goal and is linear whereas feminine energy is very cyclical. 

Passion and Your Magnetism 

A after you understand what energy you have a tendency towards, you should tap into your passions to rev up your magnetism. Simply put, being passionate about something and knowing what you love increases you’re magnetism. 

This also goes to say that magnetism is not a means to an end. You want to display passion about things because it brings you joy, because you love it,  because it’s an expression of you. Having a man in your life won’t make it exciting if you’re not excited about it without their presence. It’s as simple as that. 

Get behind the things you love because no one can fake energy. You can’t wait for people to be excited about you and your life. You need to be excited about it!

Talking about the things you truly love will light you up so bright and your energy will be apparent just from that. And that’s what will naturally attract love and abundance your way. 

What are you enamored with? That’s how you’ll connect with others. If you’re treating dating as a means to an end, others will feel your desperation for a commitment.

Attracting What You Desire 

Magnetism is about what you desire and choosing that. When you’re clear on that, someone’s energy on the opposing side of it in pursuit of your energy and what you want will be there. 

Remember that what you want wants you back, and you should only be available for exactly what you desire. Ask yourself, are you in pursuit of what you need or what you desire? 

When you’re really clear on what you want, it becomes your magnetism and what you attract. Pretty cool, right? 

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You’re in Control Of Your Own Magnetism: The Bottom Line

Shifting to the abundance mindset won’t happen overnight. This is because you are battling limiting beliefs in your subconscious among other factors that make it hard to make this change without work and effort. 

However, you are ultimately in control of doing that work, tapping into your magnetism, and attracting what you desire. 

People who embody magnetism and attraction don’t talk about it. Start your journey towards being one of those magnetized, passionate people today!

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xx Beatrice