Dating should be fun! I’ve noticed that so many people end up caught up in the WRONG parts of dating and cut themselves off from all the fun it can be. I’ve been guilty of this myself, and coming from that learning experience, I want to share with you my top five tips for successful dating.

Keep reading to learn how you can turn your dating life around and have a ball while you search for your next romantic partner.

Tip #1: Let Go of the Agenda

It’s easy and common to go into dating with an agenda. Whether you’re thinking about your age or have fear about the timing of things, you may have a tendency – like so many people do – to go into the process thinking of it as a mission.

Instead of it being a “mission” to end up with a partner at all costs, why not release that agenda. Doing so prevents that mindset from driving your energy and attitude about dating, which can have a huge effect on your dating life overall.

Instead, approach dating from a place of having fun. Take what comes as it comes and allow yourself to enjoy every piece of it without putting pressure on it or setting high expectations.

Tip #2: Have as Much Fun as Possible

Dating should be fun, so why not let that happen?! Even if you go on a date with someone that you realize halfway through you aren’t going to pursue a relationship with, that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the date for what it is.

When you’re on a date and things aren’t going how you envisioned them to, allow yourself to get to know the person you’re on a date with as they are and have as much fun as you can.

Dating is all about things being enjoyable, fun, and pleasurable. You’re in the driver’s seat to allow that to happen, so don’t forget that! This doesn’t mean you can’t and shouldn’t be honest in how you feel about the person and the experience, but don’t let the fact that not everyone is a match for you hamper the fun you can have.

Tip #3: Stay Loyal to Your Desires

Next, you should stay ridiculously loyal to the things you desire – whatever that is! Everyone has different desires for who they date and what they want their ideal relationship to look like. Stay loyal to that and don’t settle!

As you date, believe what people are showing you about themselves. If they’re showing you that they don’t have the qualities you desire, take that for what it is. You should also – throughout the process of dating – be clear about the things you are looking for and show your wants in various ways. Being open and receptive to the ways that the people you’re dating are exhibiting the qualities you’re looking for is also helpful in this aspect of the dating world.

In short, you should put your desires into the universe and wait for them to come back to you!

Tip #4: Drop Into Your Feminine Magnetism 

Feminine energy dictates that part of you that wants to feel loved and secure. It allows you to be vulnerable. This magnetism is the part of you that attracts others by having so much fun and being so turned on by life. It makes you so joyful that you can’t help but share it with others, which is a highly attractive quality.

Find the part of you that is so excited and passionate about life and share it with those you’re dating. This allows you to zone in on that feminine magnetism in order to use it as a tool to attract the right people into your love life!

Tip #5: Be Yourself

This one may sound cliche, but it’s so important! Be authentically you in your dating life. Be willing to lose the wrong people along the way and show the real you. That’s who the right person or people will fall in love with!

Do this by sharing the things that light you up and bring you joy. People love and thrive off of authenticity. Don’t be apologetic about what you love – the right person will love you for those passions!

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Don’t Let Dating Feel Like Work: The Bottom Line

Dating should be fun and exciting. Following these tips makes it so that it doesn’t feel like and is a lot more fun along the way. And that’s how dating SHOULD be, so don’t forget to revisit and use these tips whenever you’re in a rut or looking for inspiration to revamp your love life.

Thank you sooo much for reading!

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xx Beatrice