Welcome back to the Self-Love Fix. Today’s conversation is going to be all about why money manifestation might not be “working for you.”
Why the quotes? Here’s the thing: money manifestation gets to work for you. Money manifestation gets to work for everyone, but the way you’re looking at money manifestation could affect whether it actually starts working for you.
Money gets to come to you in multiple ways, even though we’ve been taught otherwise. In fact, I believe that’s the most natural state of being with money.
Money works outside of your limitations. It has its own frequency; it has its own way of being. And I think if people knew what money actually is beyond the 3D, if they knew how it actually worked, they’d be a lot more relaxed about it.
First of all, there’s a difference between your conscious desires and your unconscious desires. There’s a difference between your conscious desires and your unconscious desires. Consciously, most people walking around this earth want more money. They want to go on vacation. They want to travel. We all have these conversations, don’t we?
You might be thinking to yourself, “Why is it that if I’m consciously saying I desire more money, why is it not there? Why is it not actually happening?” Maybe you’ve even dabbled in different manifestation practices, like affirmations or visualizations, but nothing’s happening.
Here’s the thing with affirmations: you can have a conscious desire for more money, but if you have unconscious desires that tell you, “No, we can’t have more. We don’t want more. It’s not safe to have more,” then guess what? You’re not going to receive more.
The unconscious is out of your awareness, so you won’t even know that you’re actually stopping yourself from having more. For example, you can say, “I want more money. I want to make X amount more in my job.” But then, let’s say you’re scrolling TikTok or Instagram, and you see someone who seems like they have it all. They’ve got the bags, the cars, the home, everything.
And when you’re looking at them, you are seething with envy. Maybe you’re even thinking, “How can somebody have that much? It should be illegal. It should be wrong for somebody to have that much. Somebody else is missing out because they have that much.”
Listen…how you react and respond to other people when they have money will let you know your truest, deepest feelings about money.
Your conscious feelings about money tell a very small story. They tell a story about where you want to go. The conscious part of you is the part that’s aware of what’s going on around you and what you want. It’s the part of you that generates ideas about how you can refine and shift things.
The conscious self is the one that knows what you want, where you want to go, but the unconscious self knows where you are comfortable being.
The unconscious part of you is saying, “This is what I’m comfortable experiencing. This is what I’m comfortable holding. This is what feels safe to hold. This is what feels safe to experience.”
So, if you want to get to know a little bit about your unconscious self, see how you react and respond to people with money.
Who are you, and what happens when people around you have money? And if you want to get even deeper into this, what happens when the people closest to you have money?
When the people closest to you are buying homes, when the people closest to you are paying off their debt, when the people closest to you are buying things you don’t feel you’re able to buy…that will reveal your true feelings about money.
If you feel envious, or if the unconscious part of you is telling you, “That level of wealth is not possible, that’s not a good thing to have. People who are rich…that’s not a good thing to be,” that part of you is always going to win over the conscious part of you that says, “Yeah, I desire more money.”
Why is it that the unconscious part of you wins? Because the unconscious part of you is the part of you that decides what you are safe experiencing.
You think it’s your conscious desires that manifest? You think conscious desire is all you need for money manifestation? Nope. That’s a very small part of the story.
If your unconscious isn’t with the program, if the unconscious part of you does not feel safe to experience what the conscious part of you wants to experience, the unconscious will win, because the priority of the human body is survival and safety.
We think it’s us against money. It’s us against ourselves.
When I say against, I don’t mean we’re fighting ourselves. I just mean that we could be getting in our own way when working toward money manifestation without even realizing it.
If your unconscious mind says no, then you’re not going to get anywhere near it, no matter how many affirmations or other manifestation practices you’re using. You’re going to sabotage yourself out of it, whatever “it” is.
Maybe there’s a job offer or opportunity that comes your way where you can make more, but you convince yourself you’re not qualified. You’re never going to get that job, so why even try?
Or maybe if you’re a business owner like I am, you might get into the habit of, “I’m not going to post about it. I’m not going to share about my products or my services because nobody’s going to buy them anyway.”
In doing this, we sabotage ourselves before we even have the chance to succeed.
There are actually ways we benefit from not having money.
For instance, if you believe rich people are bad—for instance, if you hop on social media and you see someone with visible wealth and you feel disgusted or annoyed, you would actually benefit from not having more money. Why? Because if you had more money, you would look like the person you don’t want to look like, which is the person with visible wealth.
So when it comes to money manifestation, something that’s not often talked about is that you have to be willing to let go. You have to be willing to let go of the way you currently see things: the way you currently see yourself, the way you currently see what’s possible for you, and the way you currently see other people.
You have to be willing to lose to gain. And when I say lose, I don’t mean sacrifice; people have this idea that more means sacrifice. To have more, you have to do more.
I don’t believe that more comes with sacrifice. I make more and do way less than I ever, ever have in my life. If you saw how I spend my days, you’d probably be like, “What does she do with her time?”
So I actually don’t believe that working more means making more. That’s something people just made up, and it doesn’t make sense, because when you really, really think about it, if working more or doing more was the solution, then why are people that work the hardest and the longest hours making the least?
No, when I say “lose,” I mean you need to lose your negative viewpoint of those who have what you want.
Lastly, your language around money manifestation is not necessarily the thing that is going to be the determining factor around whether you can attract more.
It’s not the language. It’s the energy and frequency behind the language you use about money manifestation.
Let me give you an example of this to make this more tangible: it’s kind of like if somebody came up to you and was like, “I think you’re really pretty,” versus somebody who came up to you and was like, “You are so pretty.”
There’s a difference in frequency, right? Can you see it? The first person didn’t sound very convincing, but you can hear the conviction in the second one.
This is where affirmations for money manifestation have gotten out of hand. We think it’s the words we say, but I don’t even give power to words. Rather, it’s the frequency behind the words. It’s the conviction behind it.
With money manifestation, if there’s a tinge of doubt to the affirmations you’re saying, your frequency’s actually not lined up with how this thing gets to be for you. But have you ever met people who say things like, “I’m going to end up in a relationship with somebody really amazing. I don’t know how, but I know. I’m not worried about it. I’m going to find them.” They have that confidence and conviction behind that belief, and then they achieve it, right?
The frequency is everything when it comes to money manifestation.
So in my program Money Made, we really work on cleaning up your frequency, cleaning up your conviction, and cleaning up your belief that you get to have more.
Something that gets people a lot is the “how” factor of money manifestation. They say, “I want this, but I can’t see the path to it. I don’t know if it’s possible.”
Trust me, I know money’s a very sensitive subject. We all have different experiences with it, but after Money Made, the “how” is the last thing you’re ever going to think about, because you’re going to be too busy manifesting money.
The “how” is one of those tricky things that pops up with the ego that blocks you from actually receiving. Any moment we’re in the frequency of, “But how is it going to happen?” we’re not in the frequency of trust, and we’re definitely not in the frequency of attracting. Instead, we’re in the frequency of doubt.
So in Money Made, my mission is to get you out of the doubt and get you out of the frantic feelings around money manifestation.
Instead, we’re going to get you into the frequency of, “It’s happening. I attract money. That’s who I am. It just happens.”
I don’t care if you work a nine-to-five. I don’t care if you’re a business owner. In fact, money doesn’t care if you work a nine-to-five or if you’re a business owner. Money manifestation is not reserved for people of certain careers or lack thereof.
The people with that energy won’t put up with anything less. They’re in the frequency of decision and trust and power, frequency of power, the frequency of “I know it’s happening.”
If you’re ready to shake off doubt and get into the frequency of conviction, if you’re ready for money manifestation to get to work for you, join Money Made. The link will be below. I can’t wait to see you there.
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